Would you like to make money from home?

Matt Duggan wanted to find a way to make money from home, so quit as a full time magician, and looked into opportunities on the internet.

We listen to his story here – and get more great insights into the world of internet marketing- a compelling listen if you too want to make money from home.

Matt is also an actor and voiceover artist, which will be obvious when you hear him, he has IMHO a great confident manner. Again, we all have our own path to success, and here is his. He did challenge me to upload a video of doing a magic trick, which I may well do. In fact thinking about it to mystify you more, I will do an AUDIO magic trick, which I have posted below.

Matt offers a quick start guide on www.adventuresininternetmarketing.net, and writes a great, content filled blog there as well.

 

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Sugar Sugar

Did anyone see in the week that sugar is suspected to be a poison, and dangerous, i don’t know quite wher I sit on this.

One one hand I get it, as diabetes does seem to be on the rise, yet is it the full story?

Have you heard of Stevia? It is a herb that is 100 times sweeter than sugar, and healthier apparantly. I have not done a lot of research into this, but I got the info from a good source not a bloke down the pub! Can’t really imagine the average geezer down the pub discussing the benefits of stevia! Nothing to sell here, I do not have an affiliate link for Stevia.

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Desires and Dreams

I am writing this from my workplace (I am not working today!), and get to hear interesting banter from the folks in the office.

One of my collagues Richard Midsen, is learning to fly, and it got me thinking “Wow I want to do that”.

The closest thing I will do soon is parachute for charity I have wanted to do that for ages, but never got round to it!

I will be raising more money for Changez Charity, the alternative mental health charity in SW London, providing help for those who most need it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I practise NLP there as a volunteer therapist, (Neuro Linguistic Programming), NLP is useful not only in a therapeutic context, but also in sales, marketing, pretty much in any area of life actually!

I have a free e-mail course on it, to teach you the basics, which you can find on www.becomefree.co.uk

 

How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb? One. But the lighbulb has to really WANT to change:)

Speaking of alternative therapies, my teacher Christopher Paul Jones has a friend who travelled near and far, researching alternative healing techniques, and has documented it in a movie. We call it the “Eat, Pray, Love moment”. I will find out more and give it a plug in the future, if that’s your kind of thing. And no, I am not a jostick consuming hippie. Not during the week anyway!

 

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The next blog post will be all about “Rich Thinkers and Poor Thinkers”, and the mindset of both of them. It will be an interesting read, make sure you don’t miss that one, if you are wanting to make money from home.

 

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OK, here’s the audio trick, as always please leave your comments below, anything you want to ask me about how to make money from home, just holler.

 

 

 

Until next time

Neil Long -X-

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Would you like peace of mind?

Had the pleasure of talking to Grant Connolly today, creator of the Z-Point Process- peace of mind on demand!

What if there were a way of letting go of the stress we all experience on a daily basis- and experience peace of mind.

Peace of mind on demand! Lovely! And simple? Yep.

 

If you are a student of the Law of Attraction, this is in alignment with the teachings of it, as in making peace with where you are- ie Non resistance, or allowing – in other words, a quiet mind, or peace of mind!

Not directly connected to Internet Marketing, but a relaxed mindset would benefit us all I am sure! I am sure more peace of mind would be more valuable to us all nowadays!

Well worth a listen- for more about Grant’s work, please see here

 

 

Call me facetious and a smartarse if you like. But how many times have you heard people say, “It was the lesser of 2 evils”. Fair enough – one of the central tenets of NLP, is that “People do the best they can based on what they know and what they have”.

But what if there was a third option.

My friend Jeanne wants to do singing lessons, she was – or has been to scared to until now. Up ’till now, she had 2 options as she saw it.

1. Don’t take the singing lessons, therefore avoiding the anxiety of doing what you are afraid of. But not go for your dream either.

2. Take the singing lessons, and feel sick with anxiety.

Some freaking choice.

Lesser of 2 evils? No thanks. I will choose the third option.

3. Take the risk, let the feelings come up, and heal them.

You see anxiety in the present is ALWAYS based on a fear of something that occured in the past. It is a learned response.

It is also worth noting that many, many talented professionals, still feel anxiety, and that in no way is a reflection on competency. John Lennon of the Beatles used to throw up before performances as he was so nervous. Would anyone care to call him incompetent!? Imagine. (Couldn’t resist the bad joke)

And anxiety can be healed in a remarkably short time with some simple NLP, and EFT exercises.

Now wouldn’t it be nice, rather than this crap choice or that crap choice, you could confidently say, “No thanks, I choose my own empowered way” Lesser of 2 evils? No thanks, I will have my own personal greater good thanks all the same.

If you think this article could help someone, do pass it on!

Who else wants more success and happiness in their lives?

No brainer really isn’t it.

Thing is, success and happiness mean different things to different people

 

Well, one of the tenets of NLP, is “If one human can do it, any human can do it”

Its a useful way of looking at things, and inspiring too.

Does that mean we can all have more success and happiness?

NLP researchers found people who had mastered excellence in a field, or in a particular behaviour, and found out HOW they did it. They then taught it to others who wanted to learn, creating a trail of replicable techniques.

I made a list of the ones I know, and it is below, and pretty exhaustive!

Because I have studied a bit of law of attraction as well, I have thrown in those techniques.

Have I tested all these personally? No. But I list them below.

And if you think any may be able to help you, I urge you to hop over to www.becomefree.co.uk and grab your free gift. And get in touch with me! info@becomefree.co.uk

List of NLP and LOA Success Patterns

GENERAL WELL BEING AND SUCCESS

Ideal self pattern- reclaiming a positive self image, this is essential to success and happiness.

Inner critic buster- Silencing that inner negative voice- again, crucial to success and happiness

Instant confidence boost- boosting confidence, good for success and happiness too!

The Confidence Switch – more confidence boosting

The Eyes of Love – self love exercises

What’s right with you?- Seeing our strengths and positive aspects

The Negativity fast- Realistic appraisal of the positive and strategies for good outcomes. It is hard to focus on success and happiness when the dominant focus is negative!

The Frame game- Viewing things in a realistic and positive way, for personal confidence and benefit.

Possibility questions- Engaging creativity and in an expansive way.

Empowering questions – Power coaching questions “What would you do if you could not fail?”

Put relationships in perspective – Ease with relationships.

New belief generator – Powerful ways of changing limiting beliefs

Dreamsetting - Going for your dreams!

Power nap, for well being - self explanatory

Inner smile – Based on Eastern ideas, firing the “endorphin” response inside, happy drugs on demand and no side effects!

Wealth Anchor – Creating an inner state of wealth. FEELING Rich.

Stepping into the zone

Daily Success Workout- Don’t leave home without this!

Overcoming stage fright- Self explanatory

Learning to spell - Self explanatory

More independence in relationships - Self explanatory

Healing trauma - Self explanatory

Responding resourcefully to criticism- Self explanatory

Phobia cure - Phobias can be cured in a few minutes with NLP, no matter how long you have had them.

Finding positive intentions – This is useful for seeing others in a more positive light

Respectful assertiveness - Self explanatory

Grief resolution- Self explanatory

Shame and guilt resolution - Self explanatory

Positive motivation - Self explanatory

Dealing with disaster -Positive coping strategies

Intimacy , safety and violence - Positive boundary setting.

Engaging the  bodys ability to heal - Mind and body are connected, and the mind can be engaged to heal.

Time line therapy- We all code time differently. It is possible to go “back in time” and heal the past in the present time.

Getting over:

Bad suggestions- we have all been told things that are not useful- but why still live our life by them?

Bad memories- self explanatory- the best thing about the past, is it is over!

Bad relationships- we all deserve to be happy- why let old memories still bother you now.

Bad decisions- self explanatory

Getting through:

 

Habits and compulsions

Recovery

Resignation

Big events

Tests

Obligations

Getting to:

Fun

Love

Meeting people

Important duties

Exercise

Being more organised

Making more money

Making big decisions

CONFIDENCE BOOSTING

Gradual Confidence Booster

Tapping into authentic power

Programming mind for confidence and  success

One point- based on ancient Eastern Martial Art, physical balance and strength.

Emotional Wisdom-engaging another important aspect of our perception.

Creating integrated self belief- self explanatory

The Possibility Generator- Creating new possibilities, what if…

The Motivation Switch- creating motivation on demand

Risk Taking for Fun and Profit!- upside and downside and calculated risk

On the sunny side of the street- positive aspects

Building resilience- self explanatory

ID Timeline- programming desired future- we all code time differently, with this insight, we can use this ability deliberately for more positive outcomes.

Public speaking confidence

Improved sports performance

The Voice of Confidence- the internal voice, and how we use it can make all the difference. How do you talk to YOURSELF in your mind?

Ideal performance state-obvious

Desperation destroyer- there is a saying in Hollywood, desperation stinks, here’s how to get rid of it.

Ideal clients and customers- understanding the mindset of the people you are selling to is clearly useful!

Ready for romance part 1

Ready for romance part 2

Threshold Technique- this is creating a deliberate experience of “the straw that broke the camels back”, to snap you out of an undesirable situation or habit.

GENERAL TECHNIQUES FOR VARIOUS APPLICATIONS

Well formed outcome, sensory rich outcome- akin to visualization techniques

Ecology pattern- checking congruency- making sure the consequences of change are all in alignment with the highest good for the person.

Calibrating a state- finding out where someone is “”at”…..

Breaking a state-then snapping ‘em out of it!

Pattern interrupt-habit breaking, physical habit, or thought habit

Anchoring- Using the idea of stimulus/response deliberately.

Parts, peace between them – integration- well a part of me wants this, and a part wants that… creating integrated aspects of ourselves.

Collapse anchors- getting rid of unuseful responses

N- Step Reframe- Behind every behaviour is a positive intention- this is a way of giving people other ways of getting the need fulfilled- a more healthy way.

 

* I will add more to this article soon!*

Aligning perceptual positions

Agreement Frame

Aligned self

Resolving internal conflict

Visual squash

Submadality belief change

Dis- identification pattern

Re- imprinting

Change personal history

Swish

Circle of Excellence

Decision destroyer

Core transformation

Meta- transformation pattern

Peace with parents

Loving yourself

Self- sufficiency pattern

Wisdom from inner sage

V-K disassociation

Access and manage resourceful states

State of consciousness awareness pattern

As –if frame pattern

Chaining states pattern

Sub-mod overlap pattern

Compulsion blowout, threshold

Transform mistakes into learnings

Intentionally compelled

Decision Making Pattern

Pleasure pattern

Reducing pleasure pattern

Break limiting synesthesias

Filing away memories

Meta- Modelling

Meta Model

Denominalization

Problem defining/formulating

Pacing a persona meta programs

Challenging and recommending meta programs

Meta programs change pattern

Disputing cognitive distortions

Content reframing

Context reframe

Reframe submodalities

Pulling apart belief synasthesia

Establishing value hierarchy

Kinesthetic hierarchy

Thought virus innoculation

New behaviour pattern

Day end review

Forgiveness

Allergy cure

Grief Resolution

Pre grieving

Healthy eating

Resolving co-dependence

Speaking assertively

Responding to criticism

Establish good boundaries

Magical parents

Thinking and evaluating wisely and thoroughly

Disney Creativity

Spinning icons

WEIGHT LOSS

Six step reframe

Swish

Positive motivation

Resetting thermostat

Perfect Body

Calm anchor

Someone who loves you

Friendly mirror, parts one, two and three

Motivation power

Tapping thin within

Compulsion destroyer

CONTROLLING STRESS

From head to heart

Systematic relaxation

Control stress for life

Instant Motivation

Problem solving techniques part one and two

Worry buster

Letting go of stress and worry

Disassociation

Letting go of stress and worry

Healing the past

80/20 rule, energy audit

Endorphin switch

I feel good!

The joy list

HEALING

N- Step reframe, positive resources

Increase metabolic rate

Pain removal

Change words technique

Allergy removal

“Stalking”

Time change

Boosting immune system to protect from cancer

The healing codes, (collapdes anchor)

John Gray recharging and decharging

John Gray, love letter, change content, turn back clock

EFT tapping on personal success block

HAPPINESS

WEALTH (Heart based)

A richer life

Rich Anchor

The meaning of money

The Shovel Exercise

From resentment to riches

Creating a richer world

Financial temperature

Imagining unlimited wealth

Income expander

Rich childhood

Value of savings

Lust to disgust

Feel good button

ABC list

Growing in financial awareness

Creating flow

Dealing with lust and greed

Life of value

Rich vision

Millionaires workbook

Double your money

Value based pricing

An expert at making money

Wealth team

Prioritizing excellence

Stepping intop wealth

Calculating risk

Choose vehicle

Fan club

Powerful analogies

Seeing through customers eyes

Wealth revealing questions

Doing more with less

Creating a rich future

MIND BODY/ Youthfulness/ Healing

Conscious breath

Do-in

5 rites

Yoga

LAW OF ATTRACTION/ALLOWING

Games to:

Create a life you love

Hold that note

Find the feeling place

It already happened

Match the frequency

What beliefs would you have

The collage

Close your eyes

Draw your desire

The TV game

3 minute visualisation

 

Create Abundance

 

Multimillionaire spending

Want what you have

Thankyou Universe

Already wealthy

“Since money is no object”

Ideal Body

 

Twenty beliefs about ideal body

Live in perfect body now

The Sculpuure Game

Body imaging game

Why do I want it?

Career Success

The interview

Expecting success

Gettting into character

Take stock of your assets

 

Create things/Objects

10 in 1 appreciation

What I really want

I’ll take one of those please

The immersion game

 

Create more self love

I love me

Hotter- Colder

The party has already started

Magic feel good

Filling fun tank

Perfect Mate

Stories- Bedtime happy ending

You have love now

My perfect mate in detail

Lovers high

Spiritual Connection

Quiet your mind

Unconditional love

Giving love all day

Visit future self

Who else will benefit

Secret giver

Health and Wellness

Whats healthy now

Stories of healing

Reasons for physical well being

Journaling my healthy life

 

Quick pick me ups

I command

Get happy questions

Ha ha ha

Life Touchstones

Dressing the part

Talk to a stranger

Favourites

The Vibrational Library

Emotional Goals

• Process #1: The Rampage of Appreciation
• Process #2: The Magical Creation Box
• Process #3: The Creative Workshop
• Process #4: Virtual Reality
• Process #5: The Prosperity Game
• Process #6: The Process of Meditation
• Process #7: Evaluating Dreams
• Process #8: The Book of Positive Aspects
• Process #9: Scripting
• Process #10: The Place Mat Process
• Process #11: Segment Intending
• Process #12: Wouldn’t It Be Nice If . . . ?
• Process #13: Which Thought Feels Better?
• Process #14: The Process of Clearing Clutter for Clarity
• Process #15: The Wallet Process
• Process #16: Pivoting
• Process #17: The Focus Wheel Process
• Process #18: Finding the Feeling-Place
• Process #19: Releasing Resistance to Become Free of Debt
• Process #20: Turning It Over to the Manager
• Process #21: Reclaiming One’s Natural State of Health
• Process #22: Moving Up the Emotional Scale

We hear a lot about forgiveness don’t we. It’s a much bandied about word, and I believe that many of us – me included really understood. I am not a religious person, nor

am I trying to convince anyone of anything. Just thought I would blog about it, as in my studies of various forms of psychology, it is a useful thing to do.

In my experience it does NOT mean being a doormat, nor does it mean going back to get hurt again. Not for one minute.

Everything I have studied in NLP points to us being at cause of our experience, rather than being at effect of it. Therefore a definition of forgiveness I would choose would be one that seeks to empower the person doing it.

The best definition I have found comes from one of my favourite teachers, John Gray, and he says forgiveness is the releasing of the tendency to hold others responsible for our plight in the world.

In other words, we can make an empowering decision, or a dis

empowering one. At “effect”, or “victim”, we would say, or believe “You hurt me so I cannot get what I want” . At cause , we would say “You hurt me, and I deserve more, and I can get more”. One empowers you, the other does not.

I have also heard it described as “enlightened self interest”, and in the light of this insight, that kind of makes more sense does it not?

And being empowered feels so much better doesn’t it!

 

 

 

It’s a funny old balance isn’t it.

Yes, podcasting is a great way of getting your message out there, yet there is much more to the running of a successful business.

I have just ordered the book “Getting all you can out of all you’ve got”

Jay Abraham is one of the most influential marketers on the planet, and makes the case for unused resources right in front of our nose. And I agree with him- so I will be devouring that book.

It seems a 3 fold “problem”. I mean the reason why I started a business was for more freedom.

I realise that some new skills need to be learned of course and that some work is involved. Yet ultimately, freedom is the “desire behind the desire”

• Financial intelligence/Business sense and cash producing assets”
• Time
• Mindset and beliefs

Financial Intelligence

Robert Kiwosaki writes in “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” all about financial intelligence, and this would cover investing, and creating cash producing assets (an asset is something that puts something into your pocket, and a liability is something that takes cash out”. I get that.

It also covers the income from the assets exceeding outgoings, that would be financial freedom in my opinion- or at least one definition)

Time

This is an obvious one. When you are self employed it throws up another set of problems. Of course, it is great to have the independence, and I love that idea, yet when doing what you love – ie play, starts to become work, in other words social time and work time start to fuse.. that can kinda take the joy out of it can’t it? I really recommend this link to Marie-Claire Carlyle’s blogwhere she talks about it in great detail. Marie Claire ticks all the boxes for me, there is financial intelligence, business savvy, and great mindset teachings as well, speaking of which…

Inner Game

Beliefs, perceptions…. self image. We gotta get our mindset right or there is not much point. “Happy now eager for more” is a good one, “really want something that you believe you can have”, that’s a good one. I recently made a list of the beliefs I would like to have in many areas of my life, and I am working (if  that’s the right word) to real-ize ie – make them real.

So it would seem the above all together make a pretty potent mix.

Outsourcing plays a pretty big part here as well I think, if you would like to grab a free report on my Outsourcing Secrets and if you would like a free copy of a book from anoher lady who ticks all the boxes for me, click the image below.

Richard Bandler is the Co- Creator of NLP, with John Grinder.

Here are some of his quotes:
“We take the very best of what people do, synthesise it down, make it learnable and share it with each other – and that is what the real future of what NLP will be and its gonna stay that way!”

“The evolution isn’t over. We are the experience that the universe is having.”

“Do you want to know a good way to fall in love? Just associate with all your pleasant experiences with someone, and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones.”

“Brains aren’t designed to get results; they go in directions. If you know how the brain works you can set your own directions. If you don’t, then someone else will.”

“Disappointment requires adequate planning.”

“The greatest personal limitation is to be found not in the things you want to do and can’t, but in the things you’ve never considered doing.”

“The reason people have problems is that they have too much time to think.”

“The best thing about the past is that it’s over. The best thing about the future is that it’s yet to come. The best thing about the present is that it’s here now.”

“People always tell me with absolute certainty that they don’t trust themselves….!”

“If you say to yourself ‘It’s difficult to get up in the morning’, ‘It’s hard to cease smoking’, then you are already using hypnotic suggestions on yourself…”

“You know what ? Certain people think they will feel good if certain things happen… The trick is : you have to feel good for no reason…”

“Remember, it’s your own body, your own brain. You’re not a victim of the universe, you are the universe.”

“If you can’t enjoy what you have, you can’t enjoy more of it.”

“My mantra for silencing the inner dialogue is: ‘shut the  f*** up, shut the f*** up, shut the f*** up,…’”

“I made the door in my house left-handed, because I’m left handed. When people come in, they push the door the wrong way, and hit themselves on the door. And you know what ? People keep harder and harder to do it ! When something doesn’t work, try the same thing harder!”

“You are born with only two fears: fear of falling and fear of loud noise. All the rest is learned. And it’s a lot of work!”

See more: www.becomefree.co.uk

..and get a free confidence audio

 

I guess I had better finish this blog post, as I have had some feedback on it, not all of it positive!

As someone that has struggled to be positive at times, I have done considerable research into it- into how we use our bodies and minds to create our internal state,. and I am reading the Paul McKenna book “I Can Make you Happy

I am a huge fan of Paul Mckenna, he is one of the leading lights in the personal development world, and one of the studies he cites in his book is the fascinating “Happiness Project” created by a brilliant leading edge thinker, Robert Holden. PROVING scientific ally, that the way we use our minds makes

all the difference. If you have a moment, watch the first part below- the rest is on You Tube.

Life is precious and short. Isimply cannot believe that we are on this planet to be unhappy!

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

I read in the Daily Mail today, about this tragic case

I think it is important that the police who arrested this elderly couple understand this condition- don’t get me wrong, I respect the police very much, however, I do not imagine that police training covers understanding psychological disorders.

This is close to my heart as I had OCD in my younger years, and it is f****ng horrible.

And all your loved ones can do is sit there and watch you suffer in your own self created misery.

To an outsider it seems ridiculous, but not if you are the one experiencing it. It is a painful and debilitating condition.

And treatable.

Putting my NLP head on for a moment, if say, the manifestation is a fear of germs, then every time a thought about germs is experienced, the sufferer will experience the same intense anxiety that they did the first time the problem started.

The mind generalises as a learning principle, and for some reason if your Unconscious believes that the same reaction is necessary, then it will give you the same feelings as the first time the problem started.

Then.. create a ritual (in this case, washing hands) to neutralise the anxiety.

And repeat, again and again.

It’s a well intended over generalisation taken to a ridiculous extreme.

It could be a defence mechanism created earlier in life inspired by a feeling of powerlessness, or it could be something that happened that was over generalised. Lets say you were bitten by a dog. Do you still experience feelings of tension around dogs- all dogs- or many

?

Logically (Conscious mind), it makes no sense. But to the Unconscious mind it makes perfect sense.

So, what if you read once that “Germs are dangerous”.. perhaps with strong emotion behind it.. the pattern is set- and sometimes we (Conscious mind)  do not know where it comes from.

My thoughts here would be to either remive the original stimulus that caused the fear, or make the person not scared of the issue any more.

Look at this:

Does it scare you?

No? Probably not.

Yet you probably see them every day, and you know there are thousands in the world.

Yet their presence does not bother you.

There are zillions of germs in the world too. And yet, does their presence bother you? Probably not that much- ok there is a healthy caution in the sense of reasonable hygiene, but you do not freak out at just the thought of it.

If someone came to me with a germ issue, healthy caution not withstanding, I would use NLP techniques to make it as innocuos in their mind as an orange is in yours.

You might say, yeah well, Oranges don’t harm you. And I say, yeah, and neither do most of the zillions of germs that surround you every day!

So they are there, but so what? That’s the effect I would create here.

Or, I would use “Time Change Techniques”, which is a little different.

Or CBT

Or.. anyway, OCD is treatable, and the idea of this poor girls parents being arrested to me is absurd.

They deserve compassion and help, not to be arrested for goodness sake!

What I will say to anyone who is upset by this story, it is very very VERY rare. An extreme case. The VAST VAST majority of OCD is treatable.

I am living proof.

I am a fan of the writer Alan Cohen,  he writes a lot about belief systems, and the power of mind.

Also I woke up this morning thinking about recieving.

So that is the subject of these blog posts.

Oh and one more thing- these random thoughts come in to

my mind, and I have to blog about them.

Alan Cohen makes the case for abundance, and he wrote a book about it. And when you think about it, his concepts in the book are rock solid.

He gives exercises to do in the book, which is a great idea to help us realise (make real), the concepts therein.

I quote:

1. Go to your window, and look out. Look at what you can see in abundance. Look for evidence of it. The more you look for it, the more you will see.

 (Google” reticular activation system”).

Ok a quick explanation here of the geek speak. Have you ever bought anew, say, red car, then seem them everywhere?

 Reticular activation system at work if you are psychogically minded or the law of the attraction if you are of that mindset.

So, given that, is it not a good idea to look for what you want to see?

What so you see in abundance around you? For me at my window, trees, grass, houses, birds, flowers..air, water, moisture, you name it it is there. Leaves and fruit fall off trees in abundance every year, and are recycled back, now THAT is not a bad system.

All given nothing wasted. Think about it.

Alan suggests we complete a sentence 3 times with a different answer:

“If I knew that I lived in an unlimited Universe that supplied all my needs no matter what.. i would…”

I think my first order of business would be “CHILL OUT” .

And surely ease is more fun than dis-ease any day.

Speaking of dis-ease, I am going on a course next month called NLP and Healing. This fascinates me, and if you want to know more, can I suggest you look at my mentor and teachers site: www.newlifepurposetraining.com

He does many intro courses, and NLP is , well, brilliant.

So are you for that matter if you only know it.. seriously.

Anyway, I have been fascinated by the subject of healing for a while, and how does it work?

 If we cut our hand, we can reasonably expect it to heal- of course.

I think expectation is the keyword here.

 People who decide they are going to be well, or anything really, usually do.

There are thousands of cases of this, and medical science does not understand it fully. They call it spontaneous remission.

If you don’t believe me, google Martin Brofman.

Equally, I am not dissing medical science in any way, the advances it has made are phenomenal, and I don’t see it stopping, which is cool. All I am saying is that there is more to the picture.

Now, these are only my theories, so I must put that disclaimer on it. But the latest advances in psychology and other sciences seem to bear it out. The mind is powerful. And being that we have a wonderful tool, why not , why on earth harness it to our advantage?

So, I am reading this book now called “The Healing Codes”- now for years I have thought, that the issue with modern medicine (and again I say that much of it is excellent), but it treats symptoms, not causes.

If the original cause was treated, then there would be nothing to treat, surely.

This book “the Healing Codes” claims to treat the causes, and they say they have had great success with it.

I am fascinated, and will explore more, and report back, but like you I have a healthy scepticism.

 All the theory, no matter how logical it sounds, ain’t worth ’nuffin surely.

Recieving

The teachers of Law of attraction make things sound ridiculously simple. Ask, “Desire” , and “recieve” – allow. But seriously, (me included), how many of us do that? Sure we desire, of course we do, and let me make it clear here, I do not think there is anything wrong with desire, in fact in the environment we live in , it is impossible NOT to.

But recieving… that would imply a receptive process “Allowing” in the Abraham-Hicks teachings. LETTING it happen, not MAKING it happen.  How many people do you know that can have a desire for something, and gently relax into the trust that what they want is there?

Can you name one?

It’s like asking, but not opening to recieve, its like asking , and focussing on why it is not here yet, rather than positive expectation. If like attracts like, then that would attract “more of that” “more of NOT HAVING”, rather than allowing the HAVING. HMMM

Yes, it does my head in too, and the weird thing is, sometimes I believe it and sometimes I think it’s BS.

So enough for today.

But be open to recieve.

I know we are all taught it is better to give than recieve, but for me it is all about balance. I mean, if we were all giving all the time, there would be NO ONE TO RECIEVE! And that would rather defeat the point wouldn’t it?

That said, if all we do is recieve and never give, that would not work either surely.

Giving is good as it affirms abundance- If you can give it you must HAVE it to give. It’s a nice mindset.

And letting the other person give to you, affirms THEIR abundance as well, thereby improving their mindset. Thereby creating more….

So by not recieving, you are not doing anyone a favour really.  (healthy boundaries considered of course)

Recieve greatly! And give too! Pass the abundance please.